The fact is that relationships, whether
dating or married, are hard. Things do not always go perfectly, fighting
does occur, and it takes a 100% commitment from both parties to make it
a success. Often when people break off a relationship, they feel as
though something is missing. The "spark" has gone, leaving one
or both people feeling inadequate and unfulfilled.
However, even though the odds are not
very good, healthy, and long-lasting relationships are definitely
possible and proven by many people. Look at Paul Newman and Joanne
Woodard, Danny Devito and Rhea Perlman, or Nancy and Ronald Regan. What
secrets do they possess? The answer is that they all work hard at their
relationship. They made a decision of choosing to love their mate rather
than relying on the "warm and fuzzy" feelings, which everyone
knows will fade. By making love a choice you are making a decision that
even in the bad times, you stick it out.
Think of it like choosing a car. You pick
out the make, model, year, color, and features that you believe are best
for you. After driving your car for a couple of months, you realize that
perhaps you should have purchased a larger car, or that maybe the
leather seats would have been better, or on hot sunny days, the sunroof
would have been nice. However, it is now too late so you choose to keep
your car and make it work. It is the same for marriage. Not everything
will be perfect and there will be major obstacles to overcome but you
have made your decision and now you choose to make it work.
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